I'm writing because I need to write. I haven't looked at this blog since I last updated it. That was too long ago. Y'all know how I am though. The truth is, I've sat down many nights intending to write something, but nothing ever happened. I had too many thoughts. I'll give you few of them.
I need to change my view of Motherhood. It occurred to me the other day that at this point in my life, I look at children as a burden. Actually I don't know if burden is the right word, let's say inconvenience. It sounds better. I do like children. I love my nieces and nephews with all my heart. I have them for every school break and at least a month in the summer. I adore them. I even miss them terribly when they're not around. But the bottom line is, I don't have to raise those children. I get all the perks of motherhood, and none of the responsibility. That's actually not a bad deal. All I know is it's getting harder and harder for me to envision having children of my own. I've always been on the fence about having children, but I have thought about being a foster mother, at the very least. I have never had a problem dating guys with children, and at this point in life, I kinda feel like I should only date guys who have children because the reality of the situation is I'm not sure I'm going to have any. I definitely have an age in mind that if I haven't had a child by then, I'm just not going to. That age is not very far away.
A friend of mine sent me an email to this post a single Christian woman wrote about how the single Christian woman can prepare herself for marriage. Look, I'm not saying what she wrote couldn't be helpful, but I absolutely have to question why we should take it seriously. She's not married, so how does she know these things will work? It's a simple question that none of my friends who absolutely loved the article could answer. One of them told me that she would agree with me if the lady hadn't used scriptures from the bible to make her point. When I read that, it gave me a headache. Why do people act like just because you quote the bible you aren't full of shit? (see Eddie Long) I don't have to agree with that chick just because she dropped some lines from Genesis in her post. I'm not saying she doesn't have anything to offer, but taking advice on how to get married from a chick who isn't married just seems a bit ridiculous to me.
Anyway, now comes the time when I promise to update this blog more often. I'm going to update this blog more often. There. This time I mean it. I know I said that all those other times, but this time is different. I really mean it.